Forgiveness= Freedom

Often times, we think of forgiveness as an option for us to offer to another person in order to reconcile the relationship and allow for healing. This is true in most cases. But, like Jesus, we can offer forgiveness to those that have harmed us, in an effort to produce our own freedom.

There have been a few times in my life that I have been trapped by the lack of forgiveness of others for a situation or circumstance I have apologized for. In a certain circumstance, I have apologized only to be told that my apology was not sincere. Therefore, my motive was decided and the apology was not accepted. In another circumstance, I have apologized, and rather than being reconciled to that person, the person has just chosen to cease talking to me and turn their back to our friendship. Each of these situations are not models of Jesus' kingdom in heaven. Each of these situations do not embody the spirit of forgiveness. For a long time, I believed the lie that I got the punishment I deserved. But, today, I have realized that true forgiveness means, the sin is wiped clean and payment has been accepted.

Today, as I was watching the movie, Invictus, I realized that I have a choice, a very distinct choice. I can let the unforgiveness of others reign over me and cause me to seek revenge, or I can look towards Jesus and see his compassion, kindness, and peace cover me and set me free. I write today to encourage you to seek freedom if you too find yourself in similar circumstances. Unfortunately, some choose to harbor unforgiveness for things you may have apologized for and even sought restitution. However, that is the way of the world, not the way of Jesus. If there is some person or persons in your life that will not let you forget what you have done to them, let Jesus' forgiveness come make a home in your heart today. Surely, he is the only way to true freedom. Surely, he is the only way for you to turn to them and offer love and kindness. I trust in him and I believe that he has washed clean my slate and even if someone chooses to re-write it on the wall again and again...it is erased from the memory of the one who matters most...Jesus.